I was invited to moderate on okcupid! Which is a weird concept because it’s like an invitation to do free labor. And isn’t my loyalty to a dating website also like a pretty strong indication it’s not working so well? But whatever cause I feel powerful and I could use all the points I can get from the (seriously fucked up) gods of internet dating. Gotta say, everything so far is pretty tame, making me feel more like a censor (or someone with the option to censor) than a protector of my fellow internet daters.
Also, I went on the first third date I’ve been on since I was twenty three! We went to a museum for contemporary art. At first I was concerned because she seemed to want to explore at her own pace without talking and I started to wonder if this was a date at all. But then I walked into the sonic installation room and found her sitting in the center of a speaker garden with her eyes closed and she sat there without opening them for a good amount of time. Then she walked around the room crouching by different flower speakers and continued to do so after a guard asked her to not get so close. Then she came over to me to exchange thoughts and we started discussing the installation and then music and then we talked nonstop through the rest of the museum, our drive out of the city, burgers and a long walk. She has strong opinions about abstract concepts and wants to know everything about music. She loves thinking about the zombie apocalypse and she informed me that should one be living through a post apocalypse, the two biggest threats are other people and depression. I like her. I want to know more about her. How do you know if someone is into you if she, like myself, is a bit timid and inexperienced with such things? Without having to directly ask, I mean. I want to take it to the next level but I really don’t know how.